Sex blogger Mx. Nillin Lore, who recently authored How Do I Sexy?, discusses funding your sexual self as a trans or nonbinary queer in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations.

In How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger. You’re invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You’ll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships.

Mx. Nillin Lore (they/them) is an AuDHD, queer, genderflux, polyamorous and disabled author, content creator and furry, out of Saskatoon, SK. They are a multiple-award-winning sex blogger who earned first place in the Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2021. Nillin contributed to the Big Book of Orgasms: Volume 2, as well as Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, volumes 4, 5 and 6, from Cleis Press. They were also a chapter coauthor in the second edition of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, from Oxford University Press (2022), and the editor of Heckin’ Lewd: Trans and Nonbinary Erotica, from Bold Strokes Books.