Sex blogger Mx. Nillin Lore, who recently authored How Do I Sexy?, is joined by author Kitty Stryker. Together they discuss Nillin's new book and finding your sexual self as a trans or nonbinary queer in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations.

In How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their own personal and professional experience as an educator, advocate, support worker and award-winning sex blogger. You’re invited to do some deep introspection, find a look that feels right and gain insight on sexiness from fellow trans and nonbinary queers. You’ll also find valuable tips on navigating dating sites, finding community, managing rejection with grace and engaging in sexual relationships.

Mx. Nillin Lore (they/them) is an AuDHD, queer, genderflux, polyamorous and disabled author, content creator and furry, out of Saskatoon, SK. They are a multiple-award-winning sex blogger who earned first place in the Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2021. Nillin contributed to the Big Book of Orgasms: Volume 2, as well as Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, volumes 4, 5 and 6, from Cleis Press. They were also a chapter coauthor in the second edition of Trans Bodies, Trans Selves, from Oxford University Press (2022), and the editor of Heckin’ Lewd: Trans and Nonbinary Erotica, from Bold Strokes Books.

Kitty Stryker (she/her) is one of the people who coined the term "consent culture", as well as being an anarchist activist, queer femme, and leftist doomsday prepper located in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is a freelance writer with bylines at Teen Vogue, Vice, Rolling Stone and more, and enjoys playing TTRPGs in her free time! Kitty's books include Ask: Building Consent Culture, Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook, and Say More: Consent Conversations for Teens.