This community organized book club supports singles who are dating (or seeking to) as well as bonded partners in moving toward secure functioning, as taught by Tatkin and others who write about attachment styles and their application to dating and romantic relationships. His book, Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate, serves as an “anchor” for the group to delve into other writings. Members are invited to read relationship “how-to” books by different authors and discuss various perspectives, exercises and practical tools for secure coupling.

Facilitator Duncan Tam will create and sustain an inclusive and diverse space to learn and share with others what is working and what is not, and to give and receive feedback in ways that are safe, helpful and nonjudgmental. Selected love songs will be played for their lyrics that affirm and celebrate secure love and connection.